Loving relationships require continual work. Be patient and make a committment to keep it thriving.
Couples counseling can help with a specific issue but also supports you during times of high stress that is likely to occur especially in situations of transition like moving to a new country, getting married, birth of a child. In fact the birth of a child is viewed as one of the most challenging events in the human family life.
One of the first steps in improving a relationship can be teaching the partners how to regulate their emotions and manage their stresslevel. Along with that you could look for a more suitable communicationstyle:
Beeing present and listen to what your partners needs are (and make sure they hear yours) so you can be a team rather than focusing on what your partner is NOT doing.