New Shared Apartment
... an important thing when moving in with a new partner: definitely start in a new, shared apartment. Otherwise, the new partner will never really "land" there.
... (since) the territorial aspect is also important. If one of the partners already lives in the apartment, that's their territory. Whoever moves in new has to adapt to the circumstances: the house rules, the design, the entire life there.
Feng-Shui - Clear your Space- Königin Karen Kingston