Gastbeitrag von Dr. Reiner Löffler
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Excuse me? Empathy can be dangerous? That's right - this is the conclusion of scientist Paul Bloom, professor of psychology at Yale and author of the book: Against Empathy. The Case for Rational Compassion.
But first, let's take it one step at a time. What exactly is empathy? When Paul Bloom talks about empathy, he means "I feel what another person feels," affective empathy, so to speak.
Whenever you feel threatened by unfortunate events, by criticism, or by unmet expectations that come across as personal insults - do you shut down and ignore your partner for hours? Hold on to subconscious resentment for days?
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